Vaguely Vegetarian

Vaguely Vegetarian

This needs to be said before anything else: this post is absolutely not intended as a criticism of people who eat meat, or other animal products. I don’t think being vegan/vegetarian makes you a good person, and I don’t think eating meat makes you a bad person....
On Being Bi

On Being Bi

Recently I was having a conversation with some friends and Partner about a play with a premise I thought sounded really interesting. It centres around a lesbian couple, one of whom comes out as trans, causing her partner to have to re-evaluate where she stands in...
Choosing Your Self

Choosing Your Self

How do you decide which version of yourself to be? Not just at any one time or on a particular occasion, but in general? There are a few reasons why ‘just be yourself’ is often completely useless advice, but for me one of the main things that springs to mind when I’m...
Getting Weddinged

Getting Weddinged

A beautiful princess gown, trailing flowers, an angelic chorus singing you down the aisle while friends and family wipe teary eyes. The stereotype suggests that, as a woman, I’ve spent my whole life planning the perfect wedding down to the smallest detail. Well, to...
A Love Letter to Captain Marvel

A Love Letter to Captain Marvel

When I saw the first trailer for Captain Marvel, my first reaction was not “Oh wow, I can’t wait!” It was more like “Kree? Really? They’re going to keep saying that with a straight face for the whole film?” In all honesty, I was feeling a little over the whole...